Oats, Barley .... and .... WHEAT!?!?

I was just reading back to the last time I talked about Matthew's health on here (see here) ... wow, that's a long time ago. I didn't realize I hadn't said anything for a that long of a period of time. But that's okay, because it would just have been complaining if I had. The good period that I talked about in the Decmeber post lasted for a whole months ... the longest we had ever seen Matthew do so well. We were getting quite confident by the end of the month that the fructose had been the problem and we had a cured boy ... we were wrong.

The month of January brought the "old/normal" Matthew back. A cold brought him down and he stayed down. For the next few months we seen ups and downs. We enjoyed the good times and prayed for the good times during the bad times. We were often perplexed how a child could have two such drastically different characters. The only thing we could see was that there was a relationship between food and the attitudes. When happy he ate well, when miserable he didn't eat. I gave up being too concerned about his eating habits. We tried our best to feed him, gave him options, bribed him with fruit (the only thing he likes) and let him snack throughout the day. We tried not to stress about it and let him decide when he wanted to eat and when not. We knew that if we couldn't get him to eat while bribing him with fruit we might as well give up because there was no way he was going to eat. The other thing that perplexed us greatly was that he gained no weight during the month that he ate like crazy .. or the next couple months. For three months his weight stayed the same, then suddenly one week he packs on 12oz (without eating a whole lot) ... only to lose it again a week later from another illness :( When he's eating fine I don't care how much he weighs or where he stands on the charts, but when he's not eating good it starts to get to me that I'll never get the kid to gain weight and stay on track.

At the same time we also dealt with a very bloated tummy almost all the time. We couldn't seem to track the cause of this, or even see a relationship in the size of his tummy to how he was acting ... it just left us wondering. We took him off of soy milk for a period of time and ta-da, bloated tummy gone ... for about 4 days ... and suddenly reappears, just not as bad. So frustrating. Then he became sick and refused to touch any food at all. On top of his lack of oral eating he started decreasing the amount he was drinking. We had him on rice milk and after one week of not touching solids and not drinking well we had no choice but to put him back on soy formula so he could get better nutrition and most importantly protein and more fat. We watched his belly, but it never got as bloated as it used to be ... who knows what the cause was, we don't!! So he remains on his soy formula which is mixed with rice milk to lower the sugar content but still give as much nutrients as necessary.

Thankfully since the beginning of April Matthew has been doing good. I haven't had him weighed for a month now and I'm really not concerned what the scale says anymore. I just want to see him eating well consistently and right now I'm happy with his eating. I would say he has mostly normal toddler ups and downs. He won't necessarily eat every meal or when you want him to, but when he's ready he eats decently. I read somewhere that for toddlers we should look at the weekly intake instead of the daily intake as toddlers don't eat consistently. I like this way of approaching it. There are many days I'd have to be concerned because his nutrition isn't balanced if I look at it daily ... but on a weekly evaluation I'd say he's doing pretty good. He's not a big eater but he's eating and that's all the counts right now. We thoroughly enjoy these times but try not to get too overally excited as we know that he's gone this long before and then crashed, but there's always that hope in the back of our minds that maybe finally he's feeling better.

My hope that he's finally feeling better is greater increased by the fact that he seems to have a bit more tolerance to foods now too. I'm quite impressed with the variety of fruit that he can now handle, although this is offset by the fact that he continues to have issues with vegetables. Seeing that his tolerance was better, the bloating was less, and his stools were doing good we waited for a good/happy stretch and as soon as he seemed to have set into a good stretch we decided to take the plunge and introduce him to gluten so that once and for all we could know whether he's gluten intolerance or has Celiac Disease. We started with oats (which technically doesn't have gluten, but due to cross contamination is avoided by those who cannot have gluten) ... all went well. Next we moved on to barley and were overjoyed that he had absolutely no issues with this ... yah, we are NOT dealing with a gluten intolerance!!

Todays challenge was the big challenge ... wheat! We now know he's not gluten intolerance, but he could still be wheat intolerant. And if not wheat intolerance he could have issues with the fructans in the wheat (which basically would still mean he's wheat intolerant). Many who have Fructose Malabsorption (FM) cannot eat wheat because wheat has fructans (chain molecules of fructose) in it . Oddly though there are also those with FM who can handle wheat. The FM that Marietta, Rebecca and myself have is mild enough that wheat is not a factor at all. Even those who have more severe FM can sometimes still handle the foods with fructans. So it will be a bit of test to gage if Matthew can tolerate wheat and how much. We will start by giving one serving of wheat every 3 days and see how it goes. Todays serving did not result in any instant (diarrhea like he gets from some veggies) or obvious reactions, so once again we're encouraged. This challenge will take much longer then the oats and barley challenges, but we're excited just to have had a stable child long enough to be able to challenge him.

I am truly hoping that Matthew one of those kids that manages to outgrow his allergies/intolerance by the age of 2-3. Previously it seemed that many foods we would introduce caused him to react - although not drastically, enough for us to notice. But lately he's passed each challenge we've given him. I keep dreaming of the day that we won't have a "special diet" food cupboard anymore ... and then I remind myself not to get too far ahead of things and just enjoy them as they are now, and regardless to be thankful that it appears that most of the issues Matthew had were likely related to his body struggling against various intolerances.

At the beginning of April I began to go to the chiropractor for my headaches, jaw, neck and shoulder pains. Matthew would trudge along with me and entertain everyone there. It came up once that I had to do baking to restock Matthew's supply ... which brought up Matthew's diet ... and lead to the chiropractor wanting to check out Matthew and saying that he could help him. So here we are almost three weeks since Matthew's initial visit ... coincidence that he's doing better?? The chiropractor that we are seeing isn't just the regular bone-cracker. He uses a special table so that when he adjusts you don't even feel it. He also uses applied kinesiology (muscle testing) to determine what needs adjusting or attention. The method used for this is similar to the hollistic allergist we took the kids to before (see here). It all leaves me rather skeptical. It's probably because it's just a foreign concept that I just can't wrap my head around. But yet many of these work with the same concepts as chinese "medicines" (acupunture etc) and there is much positive that can been see in the world of chinese medicines. Each time we see the chiropractor he asks how Matthew is doing and he seems more confident that he has cured Matthew. Regardless at this time Matthew is doing fine ... whether coincidence or not doesn't really matter, we're just happy to have a happy boy.

Our energetic little boy who can't sit still for more then two seconds is actually very cooperative each visit and loves going for a "ride" on the table (the table goes upright so that a person does not have to climb on it but can just step on and then be lowered). On the first picture you can see how he is using the applied kinesiology. Matthew's small intestines are often weak and so he applies pressure to them and a spot on his head (this is the "power source" that is used to reenergize the problem area). See how one can be a bit skeptical??













Candy Time. The poor deprived boy went so long without sugar that now he craves it something awful. We are learning quickly not to leave a purse laying around (now that he knows how to open zippers) or any candies out as he will try to inhale them. Thankfully there are a few candies that he is allowed to have (Rockets and Nerds) and as soon as the girls have a candy he is pointing and asking for his. I will put them in a bowl and he will plunk himself down on the floor whereever he was standing that that moment and wait for me to give him his bowl.













Reading with his sisters. He still loves to read, although his attention span is short. He also loves glasses ... just has a bit of hard time getting them on properly

I finally had to pack away this toy as Matthew would drag it all over the house to use it as a stool ... this is how he managed to get ahold of candies, as well as other foods that he shouldn't be eating if we weren't looking ... makes it hard for me to know what he's reacting to when I don't know what he's eating ... thankfully I usually caught him on time.

Trains. Some time ago Matthew became obssess with Thomas the Tank Engine books. We would read them many times a day to him. We never introduced them to him, he found them himself on the girls shelf and would bring them to us. When we realized he'd become attached to these stories we gave him his Thomas train (he got it for his birthday but we never gave it to him because we figured he wouldn't appreciate it at that age). Well Thomas and the no-name car we gave him went everywhere with him for a few weeks. It is neat and precious to see his attachment to this toy and reminds us of James and his Leon's truck. A few days ago I decided he was ready for a new thrill and gave him Annie and Clarabel (Thomas's coaches) to go with Thomas. Thomas was forgotten for a day or so as he dragged Annie and Clarabel everywhere, but now he plays with all of them together.

One of Matthew's favourite places (besides the train track) to play with Thomas was on the change table. He would climb up on the table himself and ride Thomas around the edge of the table. It was neat that this is the first place he headed to with Annie and Clarabel.

A Small Adjustment to the Plan

We all have decisions and changes that come throughtout our lives, some of them bigger then others, some of them easier to make then others.

A recent decision made me reflect on the career changes that have happened during our married life. Before we got married I was adamant that we would never move to Chatham - they were all just a bunch of backwards hillbillies and as much as I love the country there was no way I was living out in the sticks like that. After two years of marriage Rob made a decision to go from being a mechanic to a pig farmer ... and the farm he decided to work at was half-way between London and Chatham ... and so we became members of Chatham and joined the "backwards hillbillies". I soon realized that my stereotype was very very wrong. We did a lot of "growing" in Chatham, especially spiritually, and loved those years we spent there, which went by far to quickly.

Before I knew it we were adjusting our lives to another thing I had never thought I would do in my life - living in the city. With Rob's decision to go into the ministry came another move, this time to the city. Both of us were born and raised in the country, so this required a big adjustment, one that took quite some time to get used to. Amazingly I have adapted to the city, and although I still much rather live in the country, I have come to see the advantages of city living. Given where our lives are currently it would take a bit for me to decide to move back to the country, although now that we finally seem to be seeing doctors less often, I think I'd be more willing to entertain the thought.

So what does this all have to do with my title ... guess I'm just reflecting on how our lives keep changing, that each time we get settled, there is another jog in the road, and with each change we adapt. So when Rob made another decision on Saturday evening, it of course comes with us wondering about how this will effect the future, but I can take it in stride knowing that the Lord has always been there in the past and He will continue to be there in the future.

Okay, so what is this decision?

Rob has decided that he will not be going back to school in September but will be taking a year off (hopefully only a year). For some time Rob has felt torn between where his calling should be at this specific time. His desire is to complete school and go into the ministry, but at the same time he saw a need that required his attention, and felt that he should be helping out. It often ate at him, especially during those times when school was so thick and tough that he preferred to quit.

I had always said that I would support his decision to quit if he truly felt that was what he wanted to do ... but, I had one condition. He could quit, but he could not go back to trucking ... long hours where we (especially the kids) never seen him. Those hours may questionably be okay for a summer job when you have to make as much money as possible in a short period of time, but they are not ideal for family life. This was usually enough to set him back to some serious studying, for when he imagines working again he thinks of trucking ... the diesel in his blood runs strong in him. Thankfully his desire to be a minister is even stronger (I think ... it's an honourable desire, although living in a fishbowl isn't exactly what a person dreams of :)

Once again I am faced with something we thought we would not do. Rob will return to working for his brother-in-law, Ike, for the next year. Over two years ago Ike suffered brain injury from what they recently believe was a case of listeriosis. For the most part, this has left his wife, Heather, to run the business as well as take care of the family and keep up with the numerous appointments and hair-pulling medical issues. While Ike tries to pull his weight, this is not always possible. As you can imagine, this is taking a serious toll on Heather, who is becoming worn down, and they cannot go on in this manner without help. Help comes in the form of ... Rob. When the request for help was voiced, Rob knew it was an answer to the pull in his heart on what he should be doing. Since my dear hubby is talented in many ways :) he is ideal for the job. The biggest advantage is of course the fact that Rob has worked for Ike before and that Ike and Rob tend to have similar (and particular) ways of working. Rob is a mechanic and welder who can keep the fleet running, as well as do service runs. He has spent a fair amount of time behind the wheel, and has also done some dispatching, so he can fill in where and when necessary on that end ... he has a basic understanding of the overall business. Since this is not the run-of-the-mill trucking company, but one which specializes in modular office space, always wide loads, often over length, and occassionally over height, there is a fair amount of training one needs to be able to wear 3 different hats at one time. Rob can slide right into the position, where as someone else would need training, and most importantly, build trust and confidence. They are all too familiar with the consequences of having confidence in the incompetant... but that's another story.

Really this doesn't change our lives all that much ... not like the previous career changes that required moving and adjusting to new surroundings ... it just sort of puts things on hold for a bit. I guess it's just the whole idea that no longer are we more then half-way towards our goal, we're now only half-way (if that). It's more the fear for Rob and how he will be able to keep in tune with his studies (especially his languages) while he takes time off and the hope that the time away will not make it more difficult to return to his studies later. And while everyone probably thinks that it's great to have an income again for a year, this is probably my biggest worry and I must remind myself how we made it this far. The Lord has provided ... and He always will if we trust in Him alone. Those who are in the same situation as us will understand how working a year can mess things up as now our 2009 and 2010 tax years will have an income and we will no longer be low-income people. As low-income people we get good benefits from the government (CTB, OCCS, GST, etc) which we greatly depend on. As well we qualify for free dental services, most of our prescription drugs are covered (due to a very low deductible on the government drug plan), and we get discounted city services (e.g. swimming passes and lessons). This mean the first two years Rob is back in school will be more difficult ... but as I said, I must trust in the Lord. On the bright side ... at least we can have a social life again, no more of this studying till midnight every night.

At the same time we are thankful that Rob is able to help out and pray that his assistance will indeed be helpful. Due to the way the college curriculm works this is the most ideal time to take a year off - between first and second year. After first year Rob enters the rotating curriculm (2nd -4th year students all study together, so the same thing is only taught once very 3 years)and it would take longer to get all his schooling done if he took time off then. We often try to plan everything out in our heads, but time and again we are reminded that the Lord works things out the way He sees best. Eventually I will have to get used to life changing just like that, for if Rob ever does make it to the ministry we might find ourselves picking up, moving, readjusting and changing a few times in our lives yet ... guess I just thought that for the next three years I knew where we were at and what we were doing. I am thankful that at this time this is only a small adjustment to our plans.

For those of you had heard about our summers plans ... well those are now changed as well. Originally Rob was working the month of June and maybe the end of August. Taking the rest of the summer to study, study, and study as well as read, read and read and input his books/library into his computer. The plan was to spend the month of July living at my parents place while they are gone on holidays. We could all enjoy a big spacious house and even bigger and more spacious outdoors out in the country. Rob was looking forward to spending his time working outside on the deck enjoying the nice quiet of the country and going for long walks in the country to do his memorizations. There had also been some thought of spending some time in August in Chatham, this idea will no longer be feasible. We will still be spending July at my parents, but Rob will be working instead, which means a shorter commute to work for him. So a bit of an adjustment to our summer, but as long as we get our time out to enjoy the country all is good ... the kids would never forgive us if we didn't get to stay at Grandpa and Grandma's anymore, they've been really looking forward to the change of scenery this summer (as have the parents ;)

So that's the scoop from here.

March Break Part #2

So here it is the end of the Easter Break and I'm finally sitting down to finish the March Break off. After the March Break I had two extremely busy weeks. Last week was a nice calm, quiet week were I got to stay home everyday (Rob laughs at that description since we had to go to appointments or somewhere almost everyday after the kids got home - but since my main "working" hours are during the time the kids are at school I consider them precious if I get to stay home all day and get things done) and get some work done around here ... that is minus Friday, which was Good Friday. So anyways ... four days of catching up ... twas wonderful.

Back to the March Break ... if I can remember! :)

Monday was a quiet day as the kids recuperated from the late nights after our weekend away. On Tuesday we did some visiting and each of us got our hairs trimmed. Wednesday the girls went away for a play day at friends. It worked out that both of them went away on the same day, so I had a quiet day at home with Matthew.

Throughout this time Marietta continued to suffer from her long lasting flu/virus. Somehow she had survived the weekend doing well (we never checked her temp so maybe she still had fevers, but she was having too much fun to complain), but the weekend must have wiped her out becuase Monday she was back to fevers and not feeling well, just wanting to sleep and a bit of a sore throat. This dragged on and as long as I gave her a good dose of Motrin it kicked the fever and she felt okay. Finally Thursday morning I gave up and decided to take her to the doctors ... which made for a very rushed morning, but we managed to drop Matthew and Rebecca off at a babysitter, make it to the doctors, picked up a prescription (doc didn't know what it was but said she didn't look very well and had been sick long enough it was worth trying an antibiotic - she thought maybe a sinus infection), and make it home just on time to meet my parents who were taking us to see Disney on Ice. We picked up Rebecca from the sitter and also took along Esther (friend of the girls, whose mom was watching Matthew and Rebecca).

Since we watch very little TV in our house the kids had not seen very many of the Disney movies in the show, so we had to do lots of explaining while we were watching. But they really enjoyed watching it and thought it was very neat to see. We sat up on the balcony ... so this is as close as my camera could get.

After watching Disney we picked up Rob and went out for an early supper before dropping Marietta off at her piano lessons. Once that was done then my parents took the girls and brought them to Uncle Mark and Aunt Val's were the slept for the night.

The next day Mark and Val took the girls to Toronto Zoo. The girls took there camera along and captures a few pictures just to prove that's where they went.

All that walking at the zoo made for some pretty tired girls that night who were off to bed on time for a good sleep. The medicine began to kick in for Marietta and we stopped seeing fevers, after a couple nights of good sleep she was back to her healthy self.

That brought us to the end of the March Break and the kids were back off to school again. Seems like a long time ago already ... then again it is almost a month ago ... time just flies.

March Break Part #1 - Chatham

On the first days of the March Break we took off for a visit to the Chatham area. It was nice that the kids also had the Friday off before the actual March Break week and so we could get that extra day in and be less rushed in our visiting. Rob was just at the end of his in-between-semesters "break" (if you can call it that considering the amount of work he was swamped trying to do and catch up on), so we managed to convince him to take two days off from his studies (minus the time he spent studying on the drive up) and relax a little. I love seeing him away from the pressures of the books, it's so refreshing. So we went to Chatham from Friday to Sunday night ... had to be home so Rob could go back to school Monday.

We had a lovely time ... like we always do. Good fellowship, great conversations, very upbuilding and strengthening. The weather was lovely and the kids got some good country air along with lots of socializing ... as did the adults too :)

Last time when we went to Chatham we left with a healthy boy (or so we thought) and arrived with a sick boy. So this time we decided to try leaving with a sick boy in hopes of arriving with a healthy boy :) Okay, we knew that wouldn't happen, but wishful thinking :) All our kids had been suffering from this lovely vicious long-term cold/flu virus that has attacked the school and area. Marietta and Rebecca had been sick most of the week and were still not all the way back on their feet, although doing better. Rebecca was over the fevers and Marietta was still worn out but seemed to be mostly over her fevers. Matthew had also gotten hit by this virus and after seven days I took him to the doctor as he was just getting more and more miserable, even though his fever had finally left on the seventh day, he was refusing to eat and even starting to decrease on his drinking. The doc said his ears were not infected but had plenty of fluid behind them. In the end she said he just didn't look well and could possibly have a sinus infection, so she prescribed some antibiotics. So the next day, armed with antibiotics, our handy-dandy ear themometer, and our bottles of Tempra and Motrin we headed off for Chatham. We figured he was so miserable at home (the "old" Matthew was back) that maybe just getting out and seeing new thing and keeping busy would help him. I would say he did well over the weekend. We did see some fevers again and he did have some meltdowns where he just couldn't cope anymore, but mostly he did good and thankfully he was so exhausted by the end of the day that we had no trouble getting him to sleep (something we always do when we go away) and he even slept thru the nights (yahhh!). To date Matthew's back to drinking good and his eating has picked up a bit (with much effort on our part) but is not anywhere near what it was before he got sick.

Left: Matthew has a fascination with glasses and loves to ask for sunglasses when we are driving.
Right: Marietta trying to read story to two boys with very short attention spans











Matthew loved Buddy. He showed a bit of caution but typical Matthew not too much fear.











Typical boy - Matthew loves trucks and trains, especially trains right now. So it was very fortunate that almost every house we went to has some trains ... and if there wasn't trains there was cars and trucks. He loved all the new toys to play with and since he wasn't feeling well these really helped him get through the weekend.

We were introduced to a new "toy" over the weekend. Seeing as we don't watch TV (just vidoes on our ancient old TV and VCR) guess we don't really know what's out there these days ... not that we're missing anything. Over the weekend we were introduced to Wii. The kids enjoyed various sports games on there ... and even the adults gave a few of them a try.

The girls hanging out for dessert time.

Fructose Malabsorption #3 and #4

Yup ... here we go again. A few weeks ago Marietta and I went for Fructose Malabsorption Breath Hydrogen tests to see if we too have FM. Not surprising, the results came back positive for both of us.

Due to a long list of symptoms and a search for answers on my continual headaches as well as recent GI issues I requested a test as I suspected I had some form of FM, although certain things just didn't add up. Whether this is the answer to my headaches issues it debateable and rather unlikely, but I do see it as being related to the GI issues. I have always blamed my headaches on TMJ, but I also know that certain foods and smells give me headaches, so I have been on a quest to try and get these under better control. The last few months of trying to figure things out lead me to believe that my TMJ does play a large factor, as well as the dry eye syndrome I have. A trial of a low fructose diet is the only way I'm going to figure out if it is also a factor. A couple months ago I did a complete sugar-free and low fructose, preservative-free diet but did not feel any better afterwards ... actually I felt worse, but I wonder if that is because of the lack of proper nutrition on the diet. So we will try just a low-fructose diet, something we're somewhat used to around here anyways, and sort of incorporate already into our daily eating.

My reasoning for taking Marietta to be tested was sort of on a whim. For some time she had been complaining of a "side-ache" or sharp pains in her chest area. She would also continously complain that she didn't feel well but would not be able to explain what didn't feel well ... just that she felt "under the weather". I felt that she was likely looking for attention with all the diets and health issues in our house so we provide a bit of extra attention but she persisted. I noticed that some of her complaining came after eating and began to wonder if she had some form of indigestion or bloating. I happened to be at the doctor a couple days later and just requested to get her tested to. It was sort of just to check and sort of just to allow her some medical attention. About ten minutes into the test Marietta began to feel unwell and her regular complaints of chest pains, etc came out. I could tell she was being honest, and about an hour into the test she complained that she felt like she was going to throw up, something she had not previously complained about. By the end of the test she said it was starting to go away. The technician completed her test already while we were there, so we weren't surprised when she told us that the test was positive.

What does this mean?? Not really sure.

For myself. I will have to do a trial of a very low fructose diet to see how this fits into the scheme of things.

For Marietta. I don't think it means anything major as she's generally healthy and well. We have told her to take note of when she has any indigestion and let us know and we will slowly figure out what foods trigger her symptoms. I have a feeling she only reacts when she has a decent over-dose, but can handle a fair amount of fructose. At this point we have done very little to change her diet, but the positive result lets us know that if she begins to have more problems we know what is likely bothering her and what to do.

For Rebecca. It gives me more confidence that Rebecca's FM is mild and likely not the true problem that we are dealing with. Rebecca now has a pretty normal diet, avoiding the obvious fructose issues. This is allowing her to feel like she's normal and not different (something we came to realize was bothering her). Lately Rebecca has been doing quite well, we still have issues, but we are often able to related these to a anxiety or stress issue. We feel the less focus on what she eats and medicines has helped her relax and do better.

For Matthew. It just makes me wonder, but no changes there. He definitely is our most sensitive FM case.

Four Eyes are Better then Two

Last week the girls picked up their new prescription glasses. While Rebecca was in great need of glasses, Marietta was on the borderline of needing them. We decided since we were out glasses shopping we would get Marietta some too so that she could use them at school and church, it will be up to her if she wants to wear them all the time. They have had them for almost a week now and you can tell how wonderful Rebecca finds it to be able to see things clearly now. She wears her glasses all the time, even though by the end of the day her eyes are a bit strained or her ears a bit sore, she is really enjoying being able to read signs and see things clearly. I look forward to hearing about her experience when she goes back to school (March Break right now) and can see the board clearly. Marietta on the other hand enjoys to wear her glasses when she goes out so other can see them, but since she is not in such a great need of them it's not uncommon for her to have them off at home.

Rebecca is Seven

On March 6th we celebrated Rebecca's 7th birthday. As with most kids she has been looking forward to this birthday for a long time ... especially because on her 7th birthday she was finally allowed to have a pet. Since Marietta's last birthday Rebecca has been asking for a pet. She decided near the beginning she wanted a fish ... a goldfish ... and has since constantly talked about the fish she was going to get. Santa gave her a small 5 gallon aquarium and so two weeks before her birthday we got it all set up and ready for her fish ... and then finally came the day she was allowed to go pick out her fish.

Left: The tank all set up and ready

Right: Swimmer and Goldie

Thankfully Rebecca was healthy this year for her birthday. This time it was Marietta who was sick. Marietta spent the day at home, resting, so she'd have energy to party later on. After school Rebecca had her friend Meaghan over and we all went to Chatters Indoor Playground for a couple hours of fun. We hit the place on a good day as there were no birthday parties going on at the time and we left before any arrived.

I think Matthew enjoyed the place the most, and was far from ready to leave when the girls decided to call it quits. The playset is designed in such a way that he could get up and around it all on his own. Parents are also able and allowed to play/crawl around. The only help he really needed was a little boost to get up to the big slide ... I imagine done on purpose to prevent little kids from going down ... but Matthew showed no fear and quite enjoyed it.

Left: The kids are all lying down on the "stairs". It was Matthew who started this idea. The girls found him lying on one of the stairs ... guess he was getting a little tired out ... so they all joined in.

Right: No Fear ... Matthew heads down the slide.

They had great fun making trains and racing each other down the slides.

Punching bag time ... ahhhh ... watch out for Matthew

Birthday cake time. I had planned on making a goldfish cake, but Rebecca found a Garfield cake mold downstairs and insisted on Garfield ... even though she hasn't the faintest idea who he is. Either way it still tasted the same :)

Left: Marietta made bookmarks for Rebecca who requested these for her new Bible and Psalm book, which she knew she would be receiving for her birthday. Marietta even made enough that she has some for her regular reading books too.

Right: new sunglasses

Classis

Our thoughts are prayers are with the student who will be examine by Classis this week in order to receive permission to speak an edifying word. Five students are being examine in Kerwood today and one in Burlington on Friday. May the Lord grant strength to each of these students so that they make speak clearly and faithfully about their love and understand of God and His Word. May He also grant that whatever the outcome may be each may accept and see this also as coming from the Lord.

Rob is off to witness several of the exams. We were suppose to leave early this morning to watch all five examines, but the kids had other plans. Rebecca and Matthew have been sick for several days and continue to struggle with fevers and a bad cold ... the latest virus that is going around and has hit the school quite badly. I will not complain as we have done quite well when it comes to sickness this winter ... but why do they always get sick when we have plans for the day????

Sarah, Plain and Tall

So as I mentioned a few posts back, Marietta's class was going to performed the play Sarah, Plain and Tall. Before the performance they each gathered whatever items they had at home that would be useful. Marietta needed an apron to go with her dress and so she got this great idea that mom was going to make her an apron. I decided that if she needed one so badly she could make it herself, which in turn meant even more work for me ... but we had fun.

Since it was a bit of a last minute idea, and since she insisted it had to be white, we dug around until we game up with a while blanket that they used for her dolls and off we went to cut and iron and pin and sew. Marietta was quite thrilled as she has been asking for some time to be allowed to use the sewing machine. Unfortunately she doesn't have the greatest teachers, as I have very little knowledge and most definitely no talent when it comes to sewing ... but needless to say we had fun together. We kept it simple and even managed to make three aprons, which she proudly brought to school so the other kids would have aprons as well. When all was said and done she asked if I had any other sewing work that she could do for me ... hmmm ... I'll have to think on that one.











I only managed to get one picture of Marietta facing me during the play. This could partly be due to the fact that I also recorded it on video since she so nicely begged me to record the whole thing. By the sounds of it the kids had a great time making the set and preparing for the play. They did a nice job, except for the fact that they were very hard to hear. Thankfully I read the book beforehand so I could follow what was going on, but otherwise I would have been lost. After the play I took a picture of Marietta in her outfit ... with her apron on. I think I'll have to add one of the aprons to her memory box ... I can still remember the first time I was allowed to use the sewing machine.

Christmas Program

Yes, the title is right. Yes, this is a picture from the Christmas Program. Yes, I'm a bit behind on my blogging ... but ... no, this is not from December.

On February 20th the kids of Timothy were finally able to present there Christmas Program after it was cancelled in December due to the last day of school before the Christmas Holidays being a snow day. The bad weather carried on into the evening and so the Christmas Program was postponed until February

I must say it was quite nice to have the program in February. It would be worthwhile for the staff to consider moving away from always having a Christmas or Easter Program (they rotate, so next year we'll be having an Easter Program) and instead have a program at someany point throughout each year. This would mean that the theme would not always have to be Christmas or Easter related and the audience would not be over tired and busy from the steady Christmas rush. Easter time isn't so bad, but in December it seems we have a constant stream of parties, dinners and gathering, on top of the regular busy schedule of life. I think we would enjoy it much better if we just didn't have the program at Christmas time. I realize we are there to listen to the beautiful music telling us of the riches of the true meaning of Christmas ... but I must say it was quite enjoyable in February also.

Last year we got front row seats and learned that front row isn't always so great. We got to see just that ... the front row of the student. Since the student are all standing on one level only the tall ones stuck out after that. So this year we got smart and found ourself a seat on the balcony. It was a much nicer view ... just not so great for those with cameras that don't have high zooming capabilities.

Rebecca is busy looking for us. She never did find us ... this would likely be due to the fact that she needs glasses.
















Last minute Rob decided he was going to come along. I had not gotten a babysitter since he had originally said there was no way he'd have time to get away from his studies. So we attempted to take Matthew along. I suppose we were hoping for magic ... most certainly we were dreaming if we thought he'd behave (which we didn't really think, but thought it worth a try). Needless to say I don't think I got to see more then 15 minutes of the program before we gave up and realize there was no way we could contain him any longer.

I brought him back in at the end and and amused himself in the chair for a bit and then enjoyed the clapping part at the end and got right in there adding his vigorous clapping to the rest of the noise.